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We Will Save Us
Trump's victory is no surprise. He and his accomplices have tapped into a powerful and primal weapon: fear. Fear can disconnect us from...
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Nov 7, 20244 min read
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Why I Use a "Non-Diagnostic" Approach
Before I begin, I want to recommend this article by Ayesha Khan, Ph.D. right off the bat. If you are interested in the intersection of...
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May 5, 20243 min read
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"The Work" in Action
Yesterday, I experienced a "traumatic event". Or, at least, it could have been traumatic - it had all the makings of an experience that...
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Feb 22, 20242 min read
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Right Distance: My Favorite Somatic Tool
In a previous post, I mentioned right distance, and I want to explore this concept a little more because, in my experience, it's one of...
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Aug 10, 20237 min read
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The Principles
In the world of trauma work and "healing" there are countless modalities and frameworks that have been developed. For me, one of the most...
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May 5, 20236 min read
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Why is Everyone so Obsessed with Trauma?
Trauma is everyone's favorite buzzword these days. People have been using it to describe everything that's ever hurt them, individually...
sashagrossmanlcsw
Mar 22, 20236 min read
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The Double Bind: I Can't and I Must
Bear with me while I nerd out a little bit in the beginning here: Double binds are one of the most common experiences that clients bring...
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Mar 3, 20234 min read
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The Decision That Changed My Life
In my practice, I talk a lot about slowness and patience with the pace that our bodies take. In somatics work, this is sometimes called...
sashagrossmanlcsw
Feb 16, 20236 min read
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Why is Slowness Important?
We're surrounded by urgency. It's everywhere: on our screens, in our media, at work, in our social interactions, and in our bodies. And...
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Feb 10, 20233 min read
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What Does "Support" Even Mean?
"What's feeling supportive right now?" This is one of the most common questions I ask in session with clients. I'll ask this when someone...
sashagrossmanlcsw
Feb 3, 20233 min read
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BDSM and Therapy: Playing with Power
My senior year of college, I wrote an 80-page thesis on BDSM. Although re-reading that thesis makes me cringe now, I am surprised and...
sashagrossmanlcsw
Dec 2, 20223 min read
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Embodiment & Practice
Embodiment is a buzz word these days, but it can be difficult to define. In part, this is because all bodies experience the world...
sashagrossmanlcsw
Nov 18, 20223 min read
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Why Somatics?
I am a therapist. And I am deeply skeptical of therapy. I believe in the value of a deeply relational and boundaried space. I believe...
sashagrossmanlcsw
Nov 13, 20223 min read
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Six Somatic Tools for Being Present
When working with some of our emotions or experiences, we have a lot of protective mechanisms that tell us it isn’t safe to interact with...
sashagrossmanlcsw
Feb 4, 20227 min read
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The First Noble Truth: "Life is Suffering"
A core tenet of Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) is the belief that much of our suffering is caused by our attempts to avoid pain...
sashagrossmanlcsw
Nov 12, 20213 min read
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What Are Our Emotions Trying to Tell Us? (Part 2)
In Part 1, I mention that emotions are beyond the binary of good and bad. This can be a complicated concept to wrap our minds around,...
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Oct 12, 20213 min read
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What Are Our Emotions Trying to Tell Us? (Part 1)
Many of us go into therapy because we want to understand ourselves and our loved ones better. Most of us are struggling to comprehend why...
sashagrossmanlcsw
Oct 10, 20214 min read
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